Chronically Confident

22 - Why it’s Okay to Have Negative Thoughts About Yourself

Hannah Bugas

Negative thoughts can be scary, intimidating, or self-deprecating, but approaching them critically can be insightful and grounding. In this episode, I’m taking a look at what negative thoughts can tell us about ourselves and how there’s much more to just looking at the bright side. 


Here’s an overview of what I discussed


  • 0:00 - Intro/Having negative thoughts in a culture of “staying positive”
  • 4:42 - Understanding negative thoughts can’t be turned off, but they can be turned down
  • 8:19 - Identifying when negative thoughts can become problematic
  • 11:42 - What you can do when you ruminate or validate negative thoughts
  • 17:51 - A review from one of my listeners!
  • 19:03 - Opening the door and processing your emotions
  • 26:24 - Giving yourself the grace to know when to face your feelings
  • 29:49 - Summarizing everything we’ve discussed
  • 31:52 - Things I’m Working On/Outro
  • 34:35 - Leave a review!


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