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22 - Why it’s Okay to Have Negative Thoughts About Yourself

March 06, 2023 Hannah Bugas
22 - Why it’s Okay to Have Negative Thoughts About Yourself
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Chronically Confident
22 - Why it’s Okay to Have Negative Thoughts About Yourself
Mar 06, 2023
Hannah Bugas

Negative thoughts can be scary, intimidating, or self-deprecating, but approaching them critically can be insightful and grounding. In this episode, I’m taking a look at what negative thoughts can tell us about ourselves and how there’s much more to just looking at the bright side. 


Here’s an overview of what I discussed


  • 0:00 - Intro/Having negative thoughts in a culture of “staying positive”
  • 4:42 - Understanding negative thoughts can’t be turned off, but they can be turned down
  • 8:19 - Identifying when negative thoughts can become problematic
  • 11:42 - What you can do when you ruminate or validate negative thoughts
  • 17:51 - A review from one of my listeners!
  • 19:03 - Opening the door and processing your emotions
  • 26:24 - Giving yourself the grace to know when to face your feelings
  • 29:49 - Summarizing everything we’ve discussed
  • 31:52 - Things I’m Working On/Outro
  • 34:35 - Leave a review!


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Love this episode? Send me a DM on Instagram and tell me what resonated! Or leave me a five-star review on Apple or Spotify. Both help the podcast more than you know!



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Negative thoughts can be scary, intimidating, or self-deprecating, but approaching them critically can be insightful and grounding. In this episode, I’m taking a look at what negative thoughts can tell us about ourselves and how there’s much more to just looking at the bright side. 


Here’s an overview of what I discussed


  • 0:00 - Intro/Having negative thoughts in a culture of “staying positive”
  • 4:42 - Understanding negative thoughts can’t be turned off, but they can be turned down
  • 8:19 - Identifying when negative thoughts can become problematic
  • 11:42 - What you can do when you ruminate or validate negative thoughts
  • 17:51 - A review from one of my listeners!
  • 19:03 - Opening the door and processing your emotions
  • 26:24 - Giving yourself the grace to know when to face your feelings
  • 29:49 - Summarizing everything we’ve discussed
  • 31:52 - Things I’m Working On/Outro
  • 34:35 - Leave a review!


Support the show:

Subscribe to the Chronically Confident Substack
Grab a Work of Art T-shirt or sticker

Love this episode? Send me a DM on Instagram and tell me what resonated! Or leave me a five-star review on Apple or Spotify. Both help the podcast more than you know!



ntro/Having negative thoughts in a culture of “staying positive”
Understanding negative thoughts can’t be turned off, but they can be turned down
Identifying when negative thoughts can become problematic
What you can do when you ruminate or validate negative thoughts
A review from one of my listeners!
Opening the door and processing your emotions
Giving yourself the grace to know when to face your feelings
Summarizing everything we’ve discussed
Things I’m Working On/Outro
Leave a review!